We need a moment to accept this, but it’s really been 21 years since Kal Ho Naa Ho happened to us, in 2003, delivering the most beautiful message about living every moment of life fully. Shah Rukh Khan, Preity Zinta and Saif Ali Khan’s film is unlike any other—and that’s one reason why the blockbuster’s re-release is raking in crores and has invoked a collective nostalgia.
The timeless tale of selfless sacrifices, resilience, life-affirming lessons with loads and loads of love will never stop being close to our hearts. Released 21 years ago, the classic delved deep into the nuances of love and friendship that resonate with us till this day.
Aman’s (SRK) selfless love, Rohit’s (Saif) enduring friendship, and Naina’s (Preity) transformative journey show us that relationships, in all forms, give life its true meaning.
6 Important lessons on love & friendship ‘Kal Ho Naa Ho’ taught us
The film’s title itself is a lesson! On that note, let’s take a look at some of the most relevant and thought-provoking lessons that the 2003 blockbuster has taught us.
1. Love goes beyond romantic boundaries
Aman (SRK) teaches us that love isn’t always about possession; it’s about selflessly wishing for the happiness of the one you love. Love is also about letting go. His decision to unite Naina and Rohit (Saif), despite his own feelings, reminds us of the purity of unconditional love. His sacrifice for Naina (Preity Zinta) is a lesson in selflessness.
2. Friendship can heal broken hearts
Rohit’s friendship with Naina transforms from a strong friendship to deeper, romantic connection, proving that meaningful friendships have the power to heal broken hearts. From sharing moments of laughter to standing by her in difficult times, Rohit exemplifies how emotional intimacy and trust in a friendship can blossom into a lifelong bond. In a way, it also tells us that all shades of love are valid. Be it platonic bonds or familial love, it reminds us that relationships don’t have to fit particular molds.
3. Live in the moment
This is the most obvious lesson that should have come first. Aman’s mantra and the film’s title Kal Ho Naa Ho is all about living in the moment and embracing the uncertainties of life because you never know what tomorrow entails. Prioritise joy and things that mean something to you. Stop waiting for that perfect moment and make every day count.
4. Support systems are everything
Sometimes, people can mend your hearts, join bridges, heal pain and completely turn your life upside down. Kal Ho Naa Ho highlights the importance of such people and of a family-like support system. When Aman enters Naina’s life, he not only resolves her personal conflicts by introducing her to new perspectives, but he also mends her family’s fractured relationships.
5. Know who you are
Firstly, acceptance is the key. Naina’s journey—from a sombre, serious individual to someone who learns to embrace joy and love—teaches us to open ourselves to life’s endless possibilities. Personal transformation begins with self-awareness and an intention to do better.
6. Kindness is never forgotten
Acts of kindness can have a profound impact on someone’s life. Aman’s efforts to make everyone around him happy with his small and big acts of kindness were truly life-transforming. They had a ripple effect on the lives of everyone he touched.
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